I cannot - nor can anyone, really - demonstrate they are a native speaker. I can merely say that I am. I also happen to be a linguist and could provide criteria for that (please see my link below.)
Generally though, one doesn't claim to be a native speaker when one isn't.
So, the question is this: How can one tell if those YouTubers are in fact native speakers?
I answered this question in another forum and it was accepted by the OP.
I'll give you the link but do not wish to post the entire thing here:
native speaker and idiomaticity
Basically, what can be said of native speakers applies to those who are fluent in a language even though a native speaker may have "more fluency" that a fluent non-native speaker. The basic premise is the same.